Fair Play Facts

           "Destiny is not a matter of chance; it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."                                                  William Jennings Bryan Chance and choice, does our reality depend on the chance that something is going to happen? Can we make the choice to change? If our destiny is by chance then does choice even matter?  I often think about what I had done to deserve my husband losing his life on a sidewalk, tampering cops, rogue prosecutor, bad people and a state full of liars. What are the chances?  Even though I know now that they have become accustom to treating the innocent as the guilty, for whatever their demonic souls desire, yet I did not know then.  I still could not wrap myself around the fact that I had to make a choice. I could tolerate the unknown as many before me have done or I could make the choice to accept my destiny.  As I became more aware of what I was dealing with I realized nothi

        In your death you became pivotal in my life ~ A surprising contact blog 1/8/23                                                                 ~                " Hell is empty and all the devils are here" .,  William Shakespeare Could that be true? Are all of the bad, demonic, evil souls here with us? Sounds like a possibility to me yet if that is reality then what happens to those souls when they die? Do we get forgiven for bad behavior or do we have to walk the walk? I would ask this question over and over again in hopes my spirit family would give me the answer. After years of so many questions they would only speak of the living and of course the early am "Good Morning". Until one night while Frank and I slept.                               Do bad, evil souls get to exist in the beauty of heaven? In the midst of a slumber, suddenly I was on a beautiful large white ferry boat, I glanced to my right only to see my mom. She was smiling and said "look a

          Unethical behavior significantly increases the cost of doing business ~ unknown Within weeks after my husbands homicide, confused and uniformed because the Florida prosecutor had never contacted me, I hired a Clearwater Fl., attorney via phone. He seemed knowledgeable and honest, stating he would find out what was going on. The relief was palpable. After weeks of no information, no clue of who took his life, or who or what a prosecutor was, this attorney sounded just right to me. Shortly after his hiring, the attorney started to ignore my questions. "What is wrongful death" I would ask, "its an action" his reply. Vague and slow to answer, he never committed for questioning. Then one day 3 months after Franks death, he called me and stated he was settling the wrongful death case. I didn't know then yet I know now that wrongful death cases take years to settle and they must be filed within two years. Why was he trying to settle only months after this DUI

         The interesting thing about the dead is; they like to talk and talk they do.                                                                Who's watching who blog 12/20/22 I felt so relieved when my mom was able to contact me after her passing.  It gave me a sense of relief, comfort and it generated many more questions.  If she can do this then why can't my father? Can all souls make contact? And then one day, I was recording while cooking in the kitchen with my then boyfriend. I could hear and knew something was going on as JoJo bird would drag her beak and her eyes would dilate. Soon after lunch, I rewound the tape and received the answer to one of my questions, as a deeper voice had joined my mother.     "Isn't it something we are here with our daughter!" So who is this does he got a name?     "That's her boyfriend, she's very happy now".     "So ah, So ah" Then suddenly another voice, a much stronger voice exclaimed "

Recently, a family member who has been going through some turmoil after her husbands passing, was being challenged by other family members. In specific, will and money, no way can't be. As the stress builds in her fight to find the truth, to challenge and to learn, she had started to question herself and why she was going through this. Self doubt, feeling sorry for herself and fear of the unknown put her in a space of "why me "? Every conversation we had over several weeks, I could hear her disintegrating, more and more. "I just can't take it anymore", "why am I going through this? why me !! " And then one day she informed  me  that another family member surprisingly shouted at her..."you're gonna die if you keep up this fight"!! Words that I had heard just a year earlier from another family member regarding my plight for justice and to hold "rogue prosecutor" responsible for her lies and deceit. "you're gonna die i

          Honesty has a power that very few people can handle.                                                            Steven Aitchison After spending the last four years dissecting and dealing with the outrageously dishonest souls within Florida's system,  I have come to the realization that the reason there are so many out of control elected officials, not only in Florida yet in our country, is because they have been dishonest for so long they wouldn't know  honesty if  it ran them over on a sidewalk!! We have congested being honest with fear. The  reality of a truthful conversation or speaking your truth honestly , has been disallowed, which has given those of power and the general population the ability to act and do as they want. The very purpose for their positions or life,  becomes a big lie, ignoring the truth. It has given others a reason to take advantage or to make others feel obligated vs being honest about their feelings. Leaving a path of fear of offending an

               They never leave us, so feel no pain!                                                   Feel no pain blog, Nov 19, 2022 I sometimes get asked, why do you hashtag Gods watching closely? Great question and somewhat easy to explain. The phrase was delivered to me from my mom, after her death. I can hear you atheist now, yet I can assure you that this was just the first step in my process of connection. I was grateful that my mom kept her promise to come to me after her passing yet I never expected it in this form. Within weeks of her death my then 2 year old parrot started to say "JoJo's got a friend", simple but I had never taught her that. Soon after,  my sisters prompted me to think of a question, never to speak it out loud, wait for the answer, if it was her, she would answer the question. So I did, the question was; are you happy? I never spoke it, I thought it. About a week later, while relaxing, JoJo was agitated and dragging her beak, I tried to get u