Fair Play Facts

  The word "fact"  comes up constantly these days. What may be a fact to one person, may be viewed entirely different to another. The word itself is open to scrutiny, as many view it's meaning as interpretation, yet facts are facts , dreams are interpretation. The word " fact" came to me by chance when creating my business, Fair Play Facts, a guide to corruption 101, but that's another story. Facts meaning is truth, reality, certainty. A word that follows me constantly on my journey. In a world of liars, schemers & unethical people facts are a very tough thing to find. In my world the  facts are clear,   only truths, only reality.    It's a very clear fact that there has been a bad, bad girl in Clearwater Florida. As a matter of fact downright sinful, who lives in her own reality, her own interpretations of truth and alters the facts. Yet there is one fact she never counted on ... she has picked the wrong wife.  And that's a fact Jack. Fairpla

  We've all heard the term " widows brain", we'll at least I have since becoming a widow. I'm not really sure what it means or if it really exists, yet what I do know is that most  widows I have encountered since my solo journey, have this inner urge or need to move or search for a comfortable place or another way. It's hard to put my finger on but it's a sense of being open to anything yet a discomfort in most everything. This place can take months or years to find and many widows travel solo in search of it, as I discovered driving across country only to encounter another  widow doing the same thing and stopped at the same hotel on her search.  It's an inner void that attaches to us. An urge that no one can fill, many times not even family. Our fears become secondary, the connection to "things" are lost and I am not even sure if "things" matter anymore. We become a part of our past and will never be the same, our views on everyth

  Once upon a time we lived in a country that was fortunate to have serious, concerned, unbiased prosecutors. I'm not sure when but somewhere along the line, prosecutors have become deceptive, conniving & untrustworthy. In my experience with lying, conniving prosecutors, it has become very clear to me that this infection or virus that is running rampade in our legal system is a direct result from what I call the "greater then God" syndrome. State attorney's and District attorney's are prosecutors. Just glorified attorney's. When did we the people lose our rights to these glorified attorney's? Did we even know it was happening? There are so many cases in our country that are wheel and deal cases through prosecutors , which leaves them wide open to a hand out or other unethical behavior and leaves the victims or wrongdoers to injustice, which gives the prosecutor the unhealthy feeling of being " greater than God". Currently,  prosecutors are  i

 

Strong Women....Magical or Taboo? I've always considered myself to be sensitive. I was very aware of my ability to be mentally  strong  and fight back yet never did I experience negative reactions to the straight forward, brave side of my personality until the legal world continuously declared to me that society frowns upon strong woman!! The very idea that I would "scare" or "put off" a jury or council insisting I get on "my softer side" as I was experiencing fraudulent legal behavior, did not sit well with me. The men in the legal world were dictating how I presented myself as they committed fraud, lied and gently patted each others backs. I had a Judge lie just to leave me without council, an attorney fraud me and another drop my case because I told the truth. Yet, I was expected to simmer down, take it like a woman. This begs the question...are strong women....magical or taboo?     At first I thought my response would be taboo  after experiencing t

 THE ROAD LESS TRAVELED In the beginning I thought it was tough enough to give up my home, life as I knew it and move across country to deal with the despotic actions of Florida Prosecutor's. I also took into account that the 5 or so cross country trips before moving was putting a strain on my furry friends too. Now that I am into the Federal portion of my existence, I realize the driving, air flights, & previous train trips where a piece of cake. Our Federal government has created a winding, hilly, rough road for the average person to maneuver. It's full of turns, dead ends and I am constantly yielding to unprofessional behavior and downright lying.  Everything I have done and everyone I have come across in the process of holding the City of Clearwater responsible for their in your face Federal & State  violations, has taught me one thing...I will never be like the out of control, intoxicated person who drove on the sidewalk & took a life! I will be focused, clear

HELLO...IT'S ME After spending the last 2 years absorbing wrongful death proceedings (finally found an attorney after Florida left me attorney less 3x) and dissecting the Insurance affect! Oh, for those who are not aware with that reference, the Insurance affect is when the attorney's for the defendants insurance company somehow make you & your loved one, the victim of homicide, somehow responsible or part of the problem and that's why they are fighting you on the insurance. In homicides, personal injury cases, the insurance companies take the "we are gonna prove you wrong" mentality. Even though you weren't even there, they try to make your past life a big part of the case. Which the goal seems to be protect their clients, regardless if they are guilty. These actions halted my blogging for a short time and exposed many that I thought where trust worthy souls yet really have narcissistic brains and now, Hello, I'm back!  The road over the past 2 years